I didn't know it was possible for a divorce to be denied. I mean really?! No one I know has ever heard of such a thing! But it is true! People come to Reno for quickie divorces! I wanted to save money and find a way to file the divorce without getting an attorney, boy was that a mistake. It would have cost a lot more, but the headache and heartache would have been worth it! Lesson learned!
And the reason it was denied has nothing to do with either one of us, but with the custody issue and the child support issue. But I don't really understand and can't really say that for sure, because it actually is written in such a language that I am not even sure what is wrong.............Why can't it be written in plain old english without all the extra words, it just makes you feel stupid! So hopefully it is a quick fix and that the fix is free!
So that was the down, here is an up (well kind of).
So the whole denied issue sort of put me in a downward spiral for a couple of days, but I did a little retail therapy to help snap out of it and it did work! I got a pair of beautiful black boots! And I wore them out Saturday night!!!! I actually went out on Saturday night for a girl's night out! And I had a blast. We ate great food and I officially started drinking again.
We went to Brew Brothers and I ordered the beer sampler. I just wasn't sure what I was going to like after not drinking for so many years, so I wanted to try them all. Smartest thing I ever did!
So I ordered it and moments later 8 little glasses of beer showed up! Awesome! So what do I like? I like the dark beers! A good stout or a brown/red ale! I officially drink again!
Did I meet anyone of the opposite sex? No! There was one that was nice to look at, but I don't think I am brave enough to go up to someone and start a conversation. I would like to, but it did not happen. Any advice on this one would be a great help. And, I did stay out until midnight and I can't tell you the last time I did that! So it feels like I am taking the right steps to living life, but I have to admit it is a little exhausting! But worth it!
(You may have noticed that I use ! a lot - I like them, they make me feel good and when I am typing my blog I am usually being pretty passionate about it. Sorry if it bugs you!!!! !!!!!!)
Sunday, September 20, 2009
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I am glad you took therapy into your own hands! I love the !!! I over use them too!!!!
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